9 Telltale Signs That Your Date Actually Went Pretty Well

Every individual dating experience is different for everyone. Sometimes, you can immediately tell if a date went well because your conversations with the other person turned out smoothly or because you seemed to have had plenty of things in common. Perhaps, the two of you had such a great time together that you didn’t mind extending the date to a few more hours. That said, there are times when it can be hard to know for sure. Maybe, you or your date felt a bit anxious, which led to some awkward moments between the two of you, or maybe your date hasn’t contacted you in a while since you last saw them, even though it seemed like you both had a pleasant time. Whatever the case may be, it’s understandable to have some doubts about how your date went.

Whether you’re new to dating Singapore singles or have been in the dating scene for a while, there are ways you can confirm if your intuitions are correct. Be on the lookout for these nine telltale signs that your first date actually went pretty well.

The Date Lasted Longer Than Expected

One of the telltale signs that your date went well is when it went longer than either of you expected. If the other person felt like they didn’t have a good time, they probably could have made some excuse to leave early or only stayed until it was time to settle the bill. However, if your date wanted to extend the date by asking if you’d like to join them for coffee or drinks after dinner, then they likely were enjoying themselves.

You Were Both Very Engaged in the Conversation

You can tell if a date was great if you felt that you both participated in your conversations. If your date consistently asked you questions and listened when you answered, you might say they were genuinely interested in you. And if they were equally enthusiastic to share information about themselves, that’s another sign that they had a pleasant experience, too.

Both of You Made Eye Contact While Talking

Aside from being a polite gesture, the other person making appropriate eye contact with you during conversations can be another sign that your date is actually interested in you. After all, people who feel uncomfortable in a situation will generally avert other people’s gaze or won’t be confident about making eye contact. As such, if it seemed like your date kept making eye contact with you, it could be a sign that they actually felt comfortable around you.

There Were Little to No Awkward Pauses

It’s understandable if the date began with a few awkward and silent moments between you and the other person. However, once you’ve become comfortable with each other, you’ll have observed that there were very little awkward pauses afterwards, and the succeeding conversations naturally flowed. These are indications that the two of you have become more open to getting to know each other during the course of the date.

You Went Beyond Having Small Talks

Another sign that the date went pretty well is that your conversations went further than small talks. Naturally, you’d have talked about the weather (goodness forbid) and your career, education, hobbies, and other basic information about one another. However, if the discussion has gone into more meaningful topics, then that’s another sign that you’ve become comfortable enough to get to know each other on a deeper level.

The Two of You Weren’t Checking Your Phones the Whole Time

If neither of you felt the urge to constantly check your phone during the date, then it’s likely that you enjoyed each other’s company. You will not have checked the notifications coming in, and you’ll not have been tempted to scroll through your social media accounts or your photo gallery throughout your time together.

You Both Welcomed Physical Contact

While a flowing conversation is a good sign that a date went well, so does some amount of appropriate physical contact. This includes subtle touches on the hand or shoulder when either of you laughed about something. It could also have been your knees slightly touching the other person’s because you’ve been moving closer to them. More importantly, if your date didn’t shy away from these non-verbal cues, it probably means they appreciated the gestures, too.

Your Date Walked You to Your Next Destination

If your date also made time to walk you to your next destination, it could mean that they enjoyed your company enough to make an effort to extend your time together. No matter if it involved taking you to the bus stop, the train station, or the corner of the block where your house or apartment is, your date chose to stay with you rather than heading their own way.

Your Date Asked to See You Again

The final and most unambiguous indication that your date went well is if the other person asked to see you again. Whether they inquired about your availability to meet them again before your first date was even finished or the morning after, it’s still a definite sign that they had a great time. Otherwise, they won’t be interested in going out with you again.

While it can sometimes be difficult to decipher whether or not your date went well, there are plenty of telltale signs that can help you have an idea if it did. Be on the lookout for the indications discussed in this guide the next time you go out with someone.  Hopefully, being aware of these signs can give you the confidence and the “push” you need to take that jump and ask the person out again for a second date.